Domestic abuse can involve coercive control as well as physical violence. Family Code section 6320 includes conduct that destroys another person’s mental or emotional calm and describes coercive control as a pattern that unreasonably interferes with free will and personal liberty.

Control over money

Relevant conduct may include restricting access to resources, sabotaging employment, or using financial control to compel behavior. Context matters: an ordinary budget disagreement is not automatically coercive control. Explain the pattern, the pressure used, and its effect on the person’s choices.

Control over communication

Isolation from family or friends, monitoring communications, and threats tied to contact with others can be part of the pattern. Technology, including connected devices and account access, may be involved. Describe specific acts rather than relying only on a label.

Control over movement

Restricting transportation, preventing someone from leaving, or using threats to control daily activities may be relevant. The court considers the circumstances and evidence, including conduct that occurs outside the other person’s physical presence.

Presenting the issue in family court

Identify dates, actions, words used, and their practical effects. Preserve relevant evidence safely and distinguish personal knowledge from assumptions. Family Code section 6300 addresses the basis for a restraining order under the Domestic Violence Prevention Act. See 6320 Conduct for the types of conduct an order may restrain.

Sources: Family Code sections 6300 and 6320, reproduced in the linked authority pages. Reviewed October 23, 2026.